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What are Safe Words In BDSM Contacts, here we look at what bondage safe words are and everything you need to when safe words within a bondage role playing sex games and remember that whilst this is BDSM…its still a game, just with maybe different rule.
If you are new to the UK BDSM scene you probably at some stage will have come up against the term Safe Word SafeWords or also safeword, they all mean the same thing and whilst primarily used within BDSM scene they are often used within many role playing sex hookups and fetish meets.
It’s fair to say that there are a lot of articles and discussion about how to use and what is a safe word and whilst with some sex hookups you can just jump straight in and meet, maybe after doing some enjoyable porn video research at PornHub, the BDSM scene is VERY different and setting up & establishing a safeword is vital to ensure your hookup is safe, sane and more so consensual!
What's a safeword? STOP...NO!
According to Wikki “A safeword regarding sex contacts in BDSM, is an indicator that the person receiving from there Master/Mistress should end / STOP and can be any word or words that are nothing to do with bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.
When stop doesn’t mean “STOP” when considering a safe word most are encouraged “NOT” to use words ‘Stop’ as this is often used as a playfully term and whilst stop normally means enough, in BDSM “Stop” can also mean harder faster, deeper, and you don’t really want your to stop.
Setting up a safeword other than STOP is a “YES” as it’s the only way to communicate to your master/mistress and stop you from getting hurt or feeling pain having a safeword means you can maximize pleasure without pain.
Red, Yellow & Green
The traffic light system, these are one of the most popular used, and as Mr. Grey asked” what are your safe words”, “Red & Yellow” and they are an easy system of words to let your Mr or Mrs. Grey know just where you are regarding your limits and how you’re feeling.
Red: it doesn’t get any clearer a message to “STOP” and by saying this it will tell your partner to stop everything, not ease off or give me a rest but STOP.
Yellow: It’s a sign you need things to slow down a little, you are enjoying it just don’t go any further or harder as you have very nearly hit your limit and nearly feeling physical discomfort.
Green: Go for it, I’m loving and want more, don’t easy off in fact you can go harder and 100% happy for you to continue.
The last word in this is that a safeword is a firm instruction to your Master/Mistress … Enjoy your BDSM Sex and explore with Swingers Personals
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